Thanks! It has been tough but we are doing great! Heavenly Father is watching over us and we're going to look at the experience as a blessing. But really quick I want to brag about Spencer:) Okay so lets be honest I have been an emotional disaster. He has been so helpful! I felt bad all day (Tuesday). I knew that things were not right. I called Spencer at work and told him I was going to call that Dr. I did and they got us in that afternoon. Before we were called back, I told Spencer I thought we had lost the baby. When the Dr. did the ultrasound there was no heart beat. I was also only measuring to 8 weeks. (I was suppose to be 11) That was bad news. Trying to control my tears, I knew it! I looked at Spencer and he mouthed to me, "It's alright, I love you." I actually did very good at the Dr's office. (NO tears)It was on the way home when I let it all out. That night I continued to have MAJOR cramps!! That night was the night. Spencer was right there helping me along with my Mom. That was a HUGE help!! That night he gave me a WONDERFUL blessing. That was the begining of a long night. Everytime I would get up Spencer was right there to help me. He got up extra early that morning and went to the grocery store, and took the day off of work. He came home surprised me with flowers and card, and made me breakfast. That entire day I was not too comfortable. He did the laundry, cleaned the dishes, made our bed, made lunch, took me to give blood, and was always right there to help me! We had a good day reading our patriarchal blessing, sharing thoughts, worries, plans for the future, and trying to make the best of the situation. What a wonderful husband! We have learned a lot and most of all learned that it always doesn't go the way we want. Heavenly Father knows what is best for us. Our time will come. Thanks for all your love and prayers! We really appreciate it! Love you all and we'll hopefully see you this weekend.
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Thanks! It has been tough but we are doing great! Heavenly Father is watching over us and we're going to look at the experience as a blessing. But really quick I want to brag about Spencer:)
Okay so lets be honest I have been an emotional disaster. He has been so helpful! I felt bad all day (Tuesday). I knew that things were not right. I called Spencer at work and told him I was going to call that Dr. I did and they got us in that afternoon. Before we were called back, I told Spencer I thought we had lost the baby. When the Dr. did the ultrasound there was no heart beat. I was also only measuring to 8 weeks. (I was suppose to be 11) That was bad news. Trying to control my tears, I knew it! I looked at Spencer and he mouthed to me, "It's alright, I love you." I actually did very good at the Dr's office. (NO tears)It was on the way home when I let it all out. That night I continued to have MAJOR cramps!! That night was the night. Spencer was right there helping me along with my Mom. That was a HUGE help!! That night he gave me a WONDERFUL blessing. That was the begining of a long night. Everytime I would get up Spencer was right there to help me. He got up extra early that morning and went to the grocery store, and took the day off of work. He came home surprised me with flowers and card, and made me breakfast. That entire day I was not too comfortable. He did the laundry, cleaned the dishes, made our bed, made lunch, took me to give blood, and was always right there to help me! We had a good day reading our patriarchal blessing, sharing thoughts, worries, plans for the future, and trying to make the best of the situation. What a wonderful husband! We have learned a lot and most of all learned that it always doesn't go the way we want. Heavenly Father knows what is best for us. Our time will come. Thanks for all your love and prayers! We really appreciate it! Love you all and we'll hopefully see you this weekend.
thanks for the comment, it was good to hear how you guys are doing!!!
It was good to see you guys today! What a great guy you are Spence!
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